I had a different post in mind for today that was going to be all light and fluffy all about how I (heart) lunch dates! But as great as my lunch date was, my light and fluffy mood has gone out the window. It has been a a whirlwind of emotions for the past two months because of the circumstances surrounding friends of ours. Just when I think I might make it through a day without crying over this horrible, horrible situation- reality is once again made clear. This time the reality came in the form of my daughter as she found out the last piece of the puzzle that we had been withholding from our kids. The sadness in her eyes was overwhelming as we confirmed and explained everything that she saw tonight. It's so unfair that she has to know now.
And after the tears comes the anger because these two selfish people do not understand the far reaching, ripple effects of their actions has not only hurt their own precious families, but those of their close friends, and their close friend's children who looked up to these once righteous people.
After the anger comes the love, because where there is love, there is still hope as we pray everyday that somehow our two friends will find a way to fix this mess.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Starburst, Skittles, and Fruit Snacks. Oh, My!
Great news!! Jordi Bear (he hates it when I call him this.) Okay, Jordan, is getting his braces off next month!! The day before Thanksgiving to be exact. We have been planning for this day since he got his braces on two and a half years ago. Jordan had to give up a lot of his favorite snacks and candy. And we are very proud of how well he stuck to the rules. Needless to say, it will be a day of gummi bears, licorice, potato chips, rice krispie treats, and of course dots!! Basically anything sticky, crunchy, and gooey will be at our "Braces Off Party"! We will then gorge ourselves with a lovely Thanksgiving meal the next day!
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Parenting Test #1023
I wish that parenting came with a handbook. It is such a tricky thing, raising kids. Not just raising them, but raising them in a way that they do not grow up to quickly in this complicated world.
Matt and I grew up in two very different households, with two very different sets of rules. The things I was exposed to as a child would make your eyebrows raise. Where as far as I can tell Matt's childhood was relatively quiet and normal with a bit of strictness. With these two very different upbringings, it is now our time to raise two children to be decent, responsible, caring people. It makes me wonder if at times we are overly strict or not strict enough. It's about finding that balance. I want my children to be innocent but not naive.
We had a parenting test #1023 this evening, when Chloe was invited to go a haunted house with a friend and her family. Of course we had reservations like it's a school night, is Chloe too young to be going to scary things like haunted houses. But we came up with some stipulations. She had to have all homework, her 1/2 hour of piano, 1/2 hour of violin all completed before going and also had to be home by 8:30 PM. The whole time she was gone all I could worry about is that maybe we should be stricter and not let her have a social life?? Chloe did not get home until 9:15 by the way, but she was the first to speak up and say that this was probably not the best activity to do on a school night. I think that right there says we are on the right track. Giving her enough freedom, yet still having the rules and guidelines to keep her our little girl for as long as we possibly can. I know this is not the last test in our parenting course and I'm still waiting on that handbook to arrive in the mail!
Matt and I grew up in two very different households, with two very different sets of rules. The things I was exposed to as a child would make your eyebrows raise. Where as far as I can tell Matt's childhood was relatively quiet and normal with a bit of strictness. With these two very different upbringings, it is now our time to raise two children to be decent, responsible, caring people. It makes me wonder if at times we are overly strict or not strict enough. It's about finding that balance. I want my children to be innocent but not naive.
We had a parenting test #1023 this evening, when Chloe was invited to go a haunted house with a friend and her family. Of course we had reservations like it's a school night, is Chloe too young to be going to scary things like haunted houses. But we came up with some stipulations. She had to have all homework, her 1/2 hour of piano, 1/2 hour of violin all completed before going and also had to be home by 8:30 PM. The whole time she was gone all I could worry about is that maybe we should be stricter and not let her have a social life?? Chloe did not get home until 9:15 by the way, but she was the first to speak up and say that this was probably not the best activity to do on a school night. I think that right there says we are on the right track. Giving her enough freedom, yet still having the rules and guidelines to keep her our little girl for as long as we possibly can. I know this is not the last test in our parenting course and I'm still waiting on that handbook to arrive in the mail!
Monday, October 6, 2008
Magic Potion Lotion
A while ago Matt brought home a bottle of lotion and said, "Here you go, Stephani at work made this." I admit there was some eye rolling and a bratty comment from me that went something like, "Oh, great another Martha!" Now in my defense I have sensitive skin, so I'm always a little leery about new beauty products. However, I promised to try this lotion out of respect, after all Matt is this womans boss.
Where do I begin to describe this wonderful product? From the moment I tried this lotion I fell in love with it! Matt hears every time I use it "Feel my silky, soft elbows!" I have dubbed it the "Magic Potion Lotion!" I don't know why Stephani hasn't gone into business with this formula - it would be bigger than anything Bath & Body Works has ever sold. Stephani's lotion is light, non-greasy and you don't have to smell like a fruit basket. But best of all it leaves your skin silky-soft! It's the Magic Potion Lotion! Sadly, my bottle is nearing the empty stage. Remember that when Stephani becomes famous for her Magic Potion Lotion, you heard about it from me first!!
Where do I begin to describe this wonderful product? From the moment I tried this lotion I fell in love with it! Matt hears every time I use it "Feel my silky, soft elbows!" I have dubbed it the "Magic Potion Lotion!" I don't know why Stephani hasn't gone into business with this formula - it would be bigger than anything Bath & Body Works has ever sold. Stephani's lotion is light, non-greasy and you don't have to smell like a fruit basket. But best of all it leaves your skin silky-soft! It's the Magic Potion Lotion! Sadly, my bottle is nearing the empty stage. Remember that when Stephani becomes famous for her Magic Potion Lotion, you heard about it from me first!!
Sunday, October 5, 2008
Amazing Race
I posted last week about some of my favorite shows. I feel one of those shows needs another shout-out. Amazing Race. This show was on tonight and it had everything a show needs. Suspense, drama, and, best of all, comedy. This show had people saying some of the funniest things while they were under the stress of making it to the pit stop first. Some of those included: "Maybe we need to dig?", "They didn't even say hello", "I had them get another plane", and the best line of the night came from the wimpiest cry-baby dude I have ever seen in my life. After bumping his head on the trunk of a car turned to his girlfriend and said "Can't you see that it's bleeding?" - must have been invisible blood, no one could see it bleeding. Then he said "Now I need you to blow on it."
If you aren't watching this masterpiece, what are you waiting for? Tune in every Sunday on CBS. You will not be disappointed!
If you aren't watching this masterpiece, what are you waiting for? Tune in every Sunday on CBS. You will not be disappointed!
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Just One of Those Days
It was one of those days. The kind of day where the rain continually falls, making it the perfect background noise. We snuggled together as a family to tune into General Conference, in our matching shirts that Matt bought for us. Matt got us "give" said the Little Stream shirts. I don't think he intended them for General Conference but we thought it would be the perfect opportunity to wear our matching shirts as we lounged around together.
General Conference seemed to come at a perfect time for me (even though it comes at the same time each year.) I just feel like I've been in a bit of a funk lately, so it came at the perfect time to refill my empty "spiritual well". After conference it was time for our semi-annual traditional dinner at El Farrol's courtesy Matt's parents! Although the food was not up to it's usual standards, I am so happy that Chloe's game was cancelled so I could hang out with the family. And as always while the guys attended the Priesthood Session, the kids and I walked around The Quilted Bear. To top it all off the rain was still drizzling down as we came home. I hope it continues because I love to listen to the rain while I drift off to sleep. See what I mean by just one of those days. Rain, Family, Food, Spiritual Enlightenment. What more could you ask for in a great day??
General Conference seemed to come at a perfect time for me (even though it comes at the same time each year.) I just feel like I've been in a bit of a funk lately, so it came at the perfect time to refill my empty "spiritual well". After conference it was time for our semi-annual traditional dinner at El Farrol's courtesy Matt's parents! Although the food was not up to it's usual standards, I am so happy that Chloe's game was cancelled so I could hang out with the family. And as always while the guys attended the Priesthood Session, the kids and I walked around The Quilted Bear. To top it all off the rain was still drizzling down as we came home. I hope it continues because I love to listen to the rain while I drift off to sleep. See what I mean by just one of those days. Rain, Family, Food, Spiritual Enlightenment. What more could you ask for in a great day??
Friday, October 3, 2008
Decorating for Halloween!
After the kid's music lessons today, they wanted to decorate the house for Halloween. It was mainly Jordan's idea, and he even decorated his room! Here are the results.
This is Jordan's graveyard in his room on his bookshelf.
I am not a fan of Halloween lights, but Chloe and Jordan insisted. I think they did a pretty good job!
These are bonus pictures of our magical kitty!
Kids make holidays so much fun - now that we've decorated the next thing on our list is costumes. This year the kid's school is doing something different- where they have to dress as a character from a book. I will let you know what they decide on later, right now I am trying to convince Chloe to be something other than what she's chosen. We will see who wins that battle!
This is Jordan's graveyard in his room on his bookshelf.
I am not a fan of Halloween lights, but Chloe and Jordan insisted. I think they did a pretty good job!
These are bonus pictures of our magical kitty!Kids make holidays so much fun - now that we've decorated the next thing on our list is costumes. This year the kid's school is doing something different- where they have to dress as a character from a book. I will let you know what they decide on later, right now I am trying to convince Chloe to be something other than what she's chosen. We will see who wins that battle!
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